Yemi Alade has shared her personal experience during her early years as a struggling female artiste.
The Afrobeats star revealed that she faced inappropriate advances and sexual harassment from music executives, which at times made her question her decision to pursue a career in music.
The singer recounted distressing incidents, including being subjected to unwanted touching by older men in positions of power.
In one particularly alarming episode, she said a managing director rubbed her thighs under the table during a meeting, highlighting the pervasive challenges faced by women trying to break into the industry.
Alade said: “In those early days, all I thought I needed was just my talent because that’s what I have. I didn’t have a bank account full of money I could use to sponsor myself.
“I just had a talent and a zeal, and a promise that I made to myself and a promise I believed God made to me. So, I always tried to show up. I was told that I needed to work harder and so I worked harder, and it wasn’t enough. There were doors I needed to walk up to and when I walked up to the doors, they didn’t want my talent, they wanted something else.
“Many times from business meetings to studio sessions to even winning certain awards and you meet maybe the managing director or any other executive and they are trying to rub your thighs under the table. And I was just a teen. My grand pa is rubbing my legs and I can’t speak because I’m in shock.
“We are having an actual business meeting. Why are you rubbing my thighs? I had to speak to myself and decided if music was what I wanted to do because the sexual harassment was becoming too rampant. But something in me told me to keep pushing my talent. So, I still showed up. If door was left open for me, I would walk in. If it was shut in my face, I would walk away.”
She explained that these experiences became a turning point, prompting her to take control of her own destiny to no longer “walk through the doors” but instead “break down the walls” blocking her path.
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